- A family from the district, breaking the orthodox tradition, performed their daughter’s wedding rituals in the same way as those of their sons.
(CharkhiDadri News) Badhra. The Dalal community family of Captain Kurdaram, a resident of Kari Dharani village, abandoned the conservative tradition of the society and performed all the rituals of their daughter Surya as children before her wedding on Tuesday. The marriage of Surya, daughter of Major Subedar Satyendra Dalal, took place on the Ekadashi night of November 12. The family has not discriminated in any way in Surya’s marriage.
On Sunday night, his grandfather Captain Kurdaram took him to Banwara on a mare. The relatives made Surya sit on a mare and performed the ritual with a band. In which all the family members celebrated by dancing and singing. Surya is seen dizzy after seeing the rituals performed by the family before marriage. Bride Surya said that daughters are given full respect and honor in their family. The family has never discriminated between him and his siblings. In their marriage all the rituals are followed like those of children.
Due to the changing environment of society and the development of education, people have gradually begun to abandon conservative traditions. HCS official Manoj Dalal said that it is a time of change and today the leadership of the country and abroad is in the hands of his daughters. Due to illiteracy, eldest daughters were considered a burden on society. Now, thanks to education and awareness, we are seeing a change in public thinking. In the modern era, due to the awareness brought in the society due to the spread of education, daughters have also started receiving the same respect as sons. Kari Dharani village of Charkhi Dadri district maintains its special identity for these things.
Thinking about a better sex ratio
Charkhi Dadri district, a leader in the field of education, was at the last stage in terms of sex ratio after which social organizations made joint efforts and this time there has been an improvement. During the second half of the Modi government, program officer Geeta Saharan launched the Beti Bachao Beti Padhao campaign to address the declining sex ratio and raise awareness among common people about daughters. After which the sex ratio increased in the district. In the first district there were fewer girls per thousand boys compared to other districts.
After this campaign, girls have been registered compared to a thousand boys. Now the daughters receive full respect and honor in the district, which is a unique example before the entire country. District Program Officer Geeta Saharan appealed to all parents to improve the lives of their daughters by motivating them to pursue higher education.
The changing environment of society changed the mentality.
Badhra: The love of pampering one’s children as one’s own child is the mentality of parents formed due to the changing environment of the society. A daughter’s marriage ceremony before marriage is an example in itself. There was a lot of dancing in the Banavare ritual which was accompanied by DJ music. The family of this Dalal clan gave an excellent message to the society by providing all the pampering without any discrimination in the daughter’s marriage.
Due to the changing environment of society and the development of education, now the public has gradually begun to abandon conservative traditions. While earlier daughters were considered a burden in society, now due to education and awareness, a change is being seen in society. the public’s thoughts. In the modern era, due to the awareness brought in the society due to the spread and promotion of education, daughters have also started receiving the same respect as sons. Be it education or respect, now people have started giving equal respect and rights to daughters as they do to sons. Badhra town of Dadri district maintains its special identity for these things.
Boys and girls gave the same message
Badhra: The family of Subedar Satyendra Singh, who lives in Kari Dharani, also abandoned the conservative tradition of the society and spoiled his daughter Surya, who is a teacher up to M.Com, MBA, like all other children, before getting married on Tuesday. The family does not see any discrimination in Priya’s marriage. The family members made Surya sit on a mare and brought out his Bindori along with the band, in which all the family members celebrated by dancing and singing.
Bride Surya, who seemed happy after seeing the rituals performed by the family before marriage, said that daughters are given full respect and honor in their family. The family never discriminated between him and his siblings. In their marriage, they pamper and pamper her like a child. His son-in-law is also a lawyer who is from Gothra village near Loharu and has decided to do away with dowry and marry only for coconut and one rupee.
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