Ambedkar Nagar. Which has no social recognition, which has no cultural courtesy and gentility, which makes the fabric of relationships shameful, in which the desire for unrestricted sexual pleasure is just a sign of modernization, after all, why should be called relationships like that? -In relationships? It is an impact on the long-standing cultural heritage of civilized society. Isn’t a mere decision of the Supreme Court without social acceptance that does not generate bestiality in the free feelings of young people a slap in the face? of sexual pleasure? The truth is that Even if the Supreme Court considers such relationships formed between young people to be legitimate from some point of view, Indian culture and civilization was never ready to support them from any point of view and neither is it even today. It wouldn’t be unfair. To say that despite receiving the seal of suitability from the Supreme Court, cohabitation relationships remain simply a vague laziness in the eyes of society, is nothing more than that. It would not be incorrect to call it modern prostitution of society. new era.
In fact, if you see, the common man of the country, despite passing through the streets of the villages and the glitter of the metropolitan cities, does not abandon his religion or his faith. He considers that your dignity, your honor and your respect are important to him. They do not give up in every way even after facing millions of setbacks, while there are some among them who, after getting more money, fame and fame than they need in relation to time, Start becoming foolish. These people begin to consider other villagers and the poor as inferior and with a lower standard of living than them. Due to which they start considering celebrating all festivals, small and big, from birthdays according to traditional customs and Western style. their standard, so their young children also reject their culture and consider it their freedom to go outside the limits of the culture and establish independent sexual relationships and therefore they do not sacrifice anything. They even stoop to such limits, while their parents are forced to accept every mistake of that youth, even if reluctantly, for the sake of appearing modern, so that even a sacred rite like marriage is transformed into a new sexual practice. of coexistence. To obtain recognition, they even knock on the doors of the courts. It is even more surprising when the court goes beyond social and cultural values and makes a decision that must be respected in any situation. Indian society is not ready.
If we see it, there are two main threads in the threads of the social and cultural fabric: one is the thread of decorum and the other is shame, but if the other name, modernity, becomes shamelessness, then the thread of decorum becomes breaks automatically. Wealth not only detracts from cultural heritage, but also promotes growing complacency and whim among young people, in which digital media is very effective. Acting as a cook and waitress, she enthusiastically serves dishes on various platforms. It starts from the same day that boys and girls want to use these platforms in their student life, although they want to use these platforms to learn, but gradually they are digital platforms. like Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram etc. While looking at the platforms, they go crazy with the vulgar reels and videos that circulate on them, without even realizing it. From pre-adolescence, when your thinking perspective changes from positive to negative, it automatically shifts to independence in getting a job or profession. Over time, as a consequence of the influx of money and the weakening of family, social and cultural ties. They become masters of their own will, so their parents and relatives avoid even talking to them about their marriage, etc. Only ten percent of people marry their sons or daughters according to their wish, otherwise seventy percent. Ninety percent of people are in committed marriages and two to five percent can now be seen living in live-in relationships. Although the number of these people in society is still very small, it is like a rotten fish polluting the pond. blur the face. One point is enough to do it, that’s enough.
There are eight types of marriage described in the Sanatana culture in which relationships such as cohabitation are not mentioned. Yes, swayamvar and love marriage are ancient Sanatana traditions, but premarital or extramarital physical contacts and relationships are. considered inferior in all its forms. Vampire marriage also falls into a different category than the current live-in relationship, which is already considered despicable in society. Valid and acceptable relationships are the only valid relationships imbued with life values, not coexistence relationships.
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